Nedelle Torrisi is a musician and love advice columnist. New album on Frenchkiss Records 2018. Ask anything or text 747-2-ASKNED. Instagram: @nedelle_torrisi
Nedelle Torrisi is a musician and love advice columnist. New album on Frenchkiss Records 2018. Ask anything or text 747-2-ASKNED. Instagram: @nedelle_torrisi
Hi! I answered this question on my radio show too that aired this past Monday and will be archived in the next day or so on www.nts.live
The advice I offered up is that it is better to be straightforward and present yourself honestly - don’t hide things. The person will find out down the line who you really are, so it’s better to have them fall for the real you from the jump!
There is totally a double standard when it comes to women being forward in the start of a relationship. It’s lame and unfair. That said, I hope that you’re reading the individual’s cues and acting accordingly. Maybe switch it up and make someone wait a while before having sex. No harm in trying different tactics, without sacrificing your true personality.
But most importantly, keep being you. Making the first move will impress the person you’re a good fit with.
Xo
Nedelle