Nedelle Torrisi is a musician and love advice columnist. New album on Frenchkiss Records 2018. Ask anything or text 747-2-ASKNED. Instagram: @nedelle_torrisi

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Anonymous asked:
Please have a baby soon!

I don’t even know what to say.

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“ An overview of a local neighborhood, with a light rainfall, Hanoi, Vietnam, Paul Chesley.
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“ An overview of a local neighborhood, with a light rainfall, Hanoi, Vietnam, Paul Chesley.
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An overview of a local neighborhood, with a light rainfall, Hanoi, Vietnam, Paul Chesley.

Anonymous asked:
Hi Nedelle, i am quite forward and used to getting what I want so I generally make the first move on a guy. It makes me feel powerful and in control but I’ve ended up developing feelings for people I seduced and getting dumped down the track because these feelings were never shared by other person. My self esteem has taken a blow and i feel like I should go back to the old days of courtship and let men come to me and play hard to get rather than following my sexual desire to hook up with them.

Hi! I answered this question on my radio show too that aired this past Monday and will be archived in the next day or so on www.nts.live


The advice I offered up is that it is better to be straightforward and present yourself honestly - don’t hide things. The person will find out down the line who you really are, so it’s better to have them fall for the real you from the jump!


There is totally a double standard when it comes to women being forward in the start of a relationship. It’s lame and unfair. That said, I hope that you’re reading the individual’s cues and acting accordingly. Maybe switch it up and make someone wait a while before having sex. No harm in trying different tactics, without sacrificing your true personality.


But most importantly, keep being you. Making the first move will impress the person you’re a good fit with.


Xo

Nedelle